I’m talking about the friendship between a man and his wife. Yes, you’re married but you are not always husband and wife, were you? You were friends first. You did things for fun without any other value than enjoying each other.
A wife is a special gift to her husband: “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord.” Proverbs 18.22. Every wife needs to recognise that they have unique powers to inspire their husbands.
Here are some ways to make your man the best in Bed
Women are gifted at pointing out their men’s faults and failure and demanding their needs are met, which is certainly understandable.
However, this often results in discontentment and conflict. How about trying to treat him as your king of the household .
This time, you want to be sneaky; wearing the underwear that you know he likes and letting him catch a glimpse. Increase your sexual contact with him in ways that leave him questioning whether he’s reading the signals right; touch his bum on your way to the kitchen. In essence, you’re toying with him in a playful manner.
Wear that sexy lingerie, apply that lipstick that you know he likes, cook him his favourite dinner, offer to apply lotion on him after his bath. Here’s another area where technology can really help you: there are so many memes available on the internet so send him subtle, sexually suggestive images and messages throughout his day to send the message that you want him and you can’t wait to make love to him.
Grab his hand and place it where you want it. Reach for his crotch in the early hours of the morning. Kiss him passionately and don’t let go. Watch the surprise in his eyes when you take his hand and slide it up your skirt or down your pants.
After all the toying and teasing, canoodling and suggesting, this is the final step. Unless you know that there are specific things that he likes, your big role is to show up clean and ready to devour and be devoured. To that end, take a nice bath or shower, apply your favourite lotion and deliver on your promises and have a great time.
As always, remember that sex exists within a context, so pay attention to the health and strength of that context.