When it comes to sex, there are times a woman would want to be in total control and take the initiative in the bedroom, assert her authority and be in charge.
To do this, she has to be creative when it comes to the sex position she initiates and come up with which, apart from making her the sole director, also gives her ultimate enjoyment and, after all, is that not the basic essence of sex?
In the long run, it pays off, both for her and her man.
Sit back, relax and check out these positions that put you in the driver’s seat and let you take control of the action.
The Cowgirl sex position is often known as the classic position that allows a woman to take charge of the pace of sex and the depth of penetration.
This allows you to alternate between shallow and deep thrusts to stimulate different parts of your vagina and also increase the sensation of intercourse.
While you are at it, your partner can manually stimulate your clitoris – if you feel like giving him some little control, that is.
2. Reverse cowgirl
As the name suggests, this is an advanced stage of the cowgirl position, but in the reversed position. In this position, you straddle your partner, facing away from him, then lower yourself onto him.
While the man lies on his back, legs are straight, slightly driven apart, the head raised, you sit on top of him with your back to him, legs bent in the knees and feet stretched out along the body of the man.
Switch up your usual cowgirl by facing away from your man and giving him an awesome view as you ride him. For even more control, lean forward or back to change the angle of his penis inside you.
3. Face Off
This position is a must-try if you like being in charge but don’t want to sacrifice the face-to-face intimacy you always have when having sex. With your partner sitting on a chair or the edge of the bed, you sit on his lap facing him with your arms around his back. Once in the saddle, you can ride up and down by pressing with your legs and knees.
4. Hovering Butterfly
This position gives a woman on top an oral twist. Hold onto a wall or headboard for support as you straddle his face. Then, you can let him do his thing, or you can really take control by having him hold his tongue firm as you gyrate your hips to your liking.
5. Pole Position
This is the ultimate position for dual pleasure. Straddling your partner’s bent leg means you’ll get clitoral stimulation and penetration at the same time. Hold his knee, and use it for support as you rock up and down. Want to drive him even crazier? You can then glance behind you to watch him enjoying you taking the reins.
6. The Hot Seat
Ask your partner to sit on the edge of the bed or on a chair, then back up onto him, sitting between his legs. As you move up and down, you can control the angle of entry by arching your back and pressing your butt into his groin.
7. The Lazy Man
Let your partner really relax by placing pillows behind his back and having him sit against them with his legs outstretched. Then, once you’ve lowered yourself onto him, you can press on the balls of your feet and release to raise and lower yourself as quickly or slowly as you please.