Are you one of those women who complain all the time about your man is straying and refusing to stick to you?
Or do you see him as the type of man that goes after anything in a skirt? You could just be the reason why he takes a bite at different pies because you have failed to maximise the sexual potentials you have to tie him down.
Some people may say that men are polygamous in nature but research has also shown that most sexually satisfied men hardly stray.
This is not rocket science; it is just the truth and simple facts of life. There are things men want in bed which most women find difficult or are so prude to try out.
So find out here what real men actually want in their women.
There is no man who does not like a woman who sometimes takes the initiative when it comes to sex. In fact, this shows that you want him at all times and won’t be turned off if he wants to have sex.
Studies have shown that though it is in a man’s DNA to be the caretaker, translating into the bedroom, a woman taking charge during sex could be a real turn on for him.
While most men love to be in charge, always being the initiator can get old and boring. It’s hot when a woman takes control and shows him that she wants him.
There is no man, repeat, no man, who loves a woman who treats sex as a favour or an act where you just go through the motions.
Your man wants you to show some enthusiasm when it comes to sex, by showing him you are really into him and really want to have sex with him.
There is nothing more seductive than an enthusiastic lover. A man wants feedback that a woman is into doing things with him.
3. New tricks
This has to do more with women who have been married for a while or those in a long-term relationship. They tend to think they have had so much sex over time and there is nothing new to try again.
How wrong can this be! Men want a women who are willing to try new things from time to time, even if they have been married for 10 years or have been dating for five.
This does not mean you should go overboard and try everything you read in romantic novels or watch in movies but you have to be willing to try out some new things like positions and styles.
Sexual desire is like an appetite and men want to try different flavours, otherwise, they get bored. Remember the often used slogan: a man should not eat the same food every day.
This is very important to men. They want their ego massaged and praising them for their effort at bringing you satisfaction would make them secure, comfortable and ready for another go.
Women erroneously think they are the only ones who should be praised but most men get tickled when you tell them they gave you the best and he would want to outdo himself the next time.
He wants a woman who finds something to compliment about him. Every man wants to know they have that special something that turns a woman on.
5. Dirty talk
The importance of dirty talk during sex can never be overemphasised irrespective of how long you have been together.
When we say dirty talk, we do not mean the gutter language or a commentary on every move he makes. But just let him know what you want him to do to you in the raunchiest of terms.
Dirty talk is just another fun way to arouse your man. It also turns him on psychologically because men are super attracted to women who are sexually uninhibited.
6. Sex drive
A guy with a strong libido wants a woman who can keep up with him! It is understood that no one is always in the mood, but the more effort you make, the more you’ll end up wanting it.
Your man will be endeared that you want to please him, as this will make him feel loved and important.
He will also be impressed that you like to occasionally take one for the team and sometimes, he’ll be the one to make it all about you.
Men want someone who will leave the lights on and let him get a good look at her. Stop worrying about covering up those fleshy bumps. He loves you just the way you are, so why hide from him?
Be the boss once in a while! A man wants a woman who will tell him what to do – at least in the bedroom, anyway.
Most guys will be thankful for a little instruction, especially if it means they’ll succeed at pleasuring you.
A woman who can guide her man with sounds or one-word responses is preferred as it takes away the guesswork.
9. Orgasmic potential
Your man is always looking forward to your orgasm but please, don’t fake it. If your man makes you feel good, do let him know, and do it expressively.
Contrary to what you may think, a man’s biggest pleasure is knowing that he pleased you.