Just about every person in the world likes good sex and if most people will have their ways, they could just skip the whole work thing and spend the whole time in bed having sex and exploring all types of positions.
But then, with a 24/7 sex schedule, variety becomes of paramount importance here. Fortunately, there are a thousand and one positions you and your partner try out this weekend if you want to experience the bang and out-of-this-world-sex you have always been dreaming of.
To make them easier to imitate, and to jumpstart your imagination, we’ve carefully selected these crazy sex positions you can try out this weekend; from the position that starts with the slow and steady grind to the fast and furious, these are positions that will bring out the best in your love (and) sex life.
Here we go:
1. Missionary Sex Position
The Missionary position (man on top, the couple facing each other) is the most famous and classic of all sex positions. The eye contact, the mild male dominance and the angle of penetration make this a popular one, and odds are, you will feel so much connection with your partner.
The Missionary is a very comfortable position that allows for easy thrusting, and an easy pull-out if you’re a man and there are plenty of benefits to it.
It works its way into basically any sexual encounter you find yourself in, at some point.
2. Coital Alignment Position
This is a spin on Missionary, and is fondly called the Frog or the Perfect Position and looks to sacrifice elevation and power for proper positioning. Here, you start in the regular Missionary, and then flatten your torso as much possible, while your partner should arch her legs and put her legs on your butt.
What you’re doing here is targeting the clitoris for more direct rubbing and friction. The pressure you put on her clitoris could help her get to orgasm quicker. You should also be staying nice and deep within her in this position, too, to ensure maximum. In other words, it’s more for her pleasure than yours.
3. Legs On Shoulders
Another classic take on the Missionary, Leg on Shoulder position can either be done with you lying down on top of her, or with her positioned at the edge of the bed and with you in standing (or more accurately leaning in) with her legs on your shoulders as you penetrate her.
This position gives the man all of the control of penetration, but it will also allow for deeper penetration, so it’s a win-win. You may need to grasp her legs and pull in gently to prevent your thrusting from pushing her away from you.
4. The Pancake
This one is an extreme variant of the Legs On Shoulders position and really puts you in the driver’s seat. Start with your torso more or less vertical and her legs on your shoulders.
Descend slowly until you’re basically folding her in half. For more leverage, you can reach around her back with your arms and pull her tightly against you. This one is very intimate, but it also gives her very little mobility, so it’s basically you who is 100% in charge of the thrusting.
The pressure you’re putting on her muscles can also create a tightness in her pelvis, leading to an increased tighter feel for you. You should make sure she’s flexible enough to pull this one off – many women aren’t – and keep in mind you’ll probably be able to pull this off for just a few minutes.
5. Standing Sex
Bro, do you even lift your partner up to have sex with her? Grab her thighs and then have her wrap her legs around you while hanging off your shoulders with her arms. Make sure you’re strong enough to pull this one off, and then penetrate her.
You’ll probably have to lift her up higher and then slowly lower her onto your penis. We’d add a pretty big note of caution here: make sure you have a very firm grip and take this slowly and safely, as there is the potential for injury here if you drop your partner – ouch.
6. The Viennese Oyster
The Viennese Oyster requires she places both of her ankles behind her head, fully exposing her vulva and folding her body into the shape of an oyster. You hold her ankles in place while she uses her free hands to prevent your body weight from crushing her contorted body. This is great for extra-deep penetration.
7. Spread Eagle
This one is not for beginners, as it requires a little light bondage. But if you’re exploring kinkier options with your partner, this is a great option that allows you to take a more dominant role while still offering both of you a lot of intimacy.
With your partner on her back, have her spread her legs wide apart and you will be in for total control in a very steamy, powerful romp.
Doggy-Style is one of the favoured sex positions of millions of people for a few reasons. It’s the classic female submissive position and really lets the man be in control, and there’s more than a few variations to it.
In its simplest form, you kneel on the bed, with your partner on all fours. Enter her from behind, and hold onto her hips and/or torso.
You can decide to go slow or hard. If you want to add some roughness, and your partner is into that, this position is solid for pulling on hair or spanking as well, to add to the general submissiveness of the position.
If you have a free hand, a clitoral reach-around or playing with her breasts can add extra stimulation to the position.
To be continued next week.