We seem to be doing the same thing again and again and it has left me feeling bored. I’m making excuses to avoid sex even though I enjoy it
I love my boyfriend passionately.
We had a great love life until a few months ago, when I started to feel as if we were doing the same thing again and again.
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Now I have trouble initiating sex because of this feeling of numbness, which he told me he sometimes feels, too.
I feel as if he doesn’t know how to push my buttons, and I don’t know how to guide him.
I really enjoy our foreplay and intercourse, but the beginning is very difficult and doesn’t feel spontaneous at all.
I find myself making excuses to avoid sex because I’m afraid it’s going to happen again.
When we do have intercourse, I have to think intensely about arousing situations to overcome the numbness.
It’s exhausting and depressing. Read more